Setbacks are inevitable, so founders can prepare by improving the basics: sleep, food, exercise, sunlight, and a home environment that supports them. Seibel and Caldwell describe neglecting these as a kind of personal health debt that may catch up with founders over time, especially as companies take years to build.
Most Important Lifestyle Habits Of Successful Founders
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Y Combinator’s Michael Seibel and Dalton Caldwell discuss habits that help founders prevent and recover from setbacks, drawing on their experience advising YC founders.
Seibel recommends auditing an information diet that can include doomscrolling, constant market news, and social media comparisons. Founders can reduce distractions with tools such as grayscale screens, notification limits, and screen time tracking. On compensation, he says salary should cover living needs and motivation while leaving money in the company; the right level depends on each founder’s circumstances.
Hard conversations are inevitable, and co-founders may handle frustration differently: one may want to talk immediately, while another needs time or prefers writing. Seibel advises recognizing those differences and practicing how to resolve conflict during smaller disagreements. Clear expectations also help prevent avoidable crises, including expectations based on rare startup success stories.
When bad news arrives, Seibel and Caldwell advise considering whether action is needed right away. Sleeping on an angry email or waiting through the weekend can bring clarity; Seibel recalls taking a day off after a potential acquisition fell through so he could return in a better state. They also encourage founders to spend time with supportive people, choose healthy ways to decompress, and consider therapy or prescribed medication when appropriate.
A company failing does not automatically mean its founder has failed, and experience can help with future work or a new role. But when the facts show the company is not viable, continuing can put savings, relationships, or suppliers at risk; Seibel and Caldwell say stopping may be the right choice. They also caution struggling founders against spending their last savings on services that promise to fix the business.
Takeaways
- Build sleep, food, exercise, and a supportive home into your startup routine before a crisis arrives.
- Review your information diet and limit feeds that distract you or worsen comparison and anxiety.
- Agree with co-founders on how to handle conflict, including when to talk and when to take a pause.
- After upsetting news, sleep on nonurgent decisions before sending a response.
- Assess a struggling company with clear facts, and protect your finances and relationships when deciding whether to continue.
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